Sgt. Michael A. Willoughby
March 4, 1967 – Dec. 28, 2022

LAKE COUNTY, Calif. — Family and friends mourn the loss of Michael A. Willoughby, loving father, husband, PopPop, and true friend.

He passed away in his sleep of natural causes on Dec. 28, 2022.

Mike grew up in Philadelphia, the oldest of three children.

He joined the Army at age 19 and rose to the rank of sergeant.

He met Crystal in 2013 when they both worked at a motorcycle assembly factory. They became close friends.

Then Mike was called to return to service in the Army. When he returned home, he discovered that Crystal had moved 3,000 miles away to California. He came to visit her and proposed on Valentine’s Day in 2015.

Mike and Crystal were married on March 6, 2015, two days after Mike’s birthday so he would never forget their anniversary!

What Mike loved the most was his family. He was his family’s protector, and they always felt safe with him. His wife and Sunshine, Crystal, children Ray-Ray, Max, Carlos, Margarita, Junior, and grandchildren, Adelina, Jelani and Amberliz.

He also had a love-hate relationship with daughter, Martha, but he always wanted the best for her.

Mike loved to cook and made great meals for everyone. He also prepared delicious ribs, chicken and pork shoulder on his smoker that he was very proud of.

He enjoyed sharing memorable stories about his time in the Army, and how he made it through Desert Storm.

Mike will be remembered for his good attitude and willingness to pitch in and help. He had an infectious laugh, and a silly side that made others feel comfortable.

He will also be remembered as what a dad should be. He lived to protect Ray-Ray, who has autism and Mike was very good at keeping him safe and happy.

The legacy that Mike leaves is strong. He was loyal, dedicated and there for his family in good times and bad times. He always gave it 100 percent.

Although he left too soon, his family knows he is still watching over them.